• Mercy replied to the topic THE CHURCH AND ITS DOUBLE STANDARDS in the forum GENERAL DISCUSSIONS 7 months, 1 week ago

    Yes, once the singles are lectured and prepared before getting involved with anything marriage, there will be no or less divorce. The forgiving aspect, if a man sees that his wife is always “its fine darling, I have forgiven you” he will continue threading on the path of unfaithfulness. It is not as if shes dumb or daft, shes only trying to keep herself committed to the vow she made. Christ had done enough teaching on divorce, we should use them. In Church, when you ask your teacher a question He/She doesn’t have much understanding on, they end up saying “we will treat that in our next lesson” and when the time comes, they simply give excuse of  “we have have to round off this manual as soon as possible”. Its is well even at the verge of divorce.